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Aging In Place, A Complete Step By Step Guide

Starting With Downsizing, Decluttering, Organizing & Safeguarding Your Homes

Working Towards Staying Put In Your Own Neighborhood When Aging In Place:

Home Safety, Downsizing,

Why Conventional Houses May Not Be Suitable For Aging In Place,

Inclusive Neighborhoods For All Ages, 

Low Maintenance Houses, Decluttering.

an inclusive neighborhood for all ages is for everyone, not just those aging in place, but, young and old with houses built suitable for different types of occupants - this is the true essence of aging in place - seniors do not have to move to other areas
An Inclusive Neighborhood Where Young and Old Can Live Together In Their Own Houses and Seniors Won't Have To Move Away From Their Familiar & Beloved Community
Home Safety : Percentage By Areas Of Slips and Falls Of Seniors In Their Own Homes : Data From American Journal Of Lifestyle Medicine & Government Of Canada, Public Health Agency - Bedroom 25%, Stair 22.9%, Bathroom 22.7%. Driveway & Steps 18%, Kitchen, Dining 7.2%
Percentage By Areas Of Slips and Falls Of Seniors In Their Own Homes : Data From American Journal Of Lifestyle Medicine & Government Of Canada, Public Health Agency ,

Know These Danger Zones

Home Safety For Seniors- Infographics : In Descending Order Of Likelihood Where Seniors May Actually Slip and Fall In Their Own Homes : 1) Bedroom, 2) Staircase, 3) Bathroom, 4) Driveway & Walkway
Infographics : In Descending Order Of Likelihood Where Seniors May Actually Slip and Fall In Their Own Homes : 1) Bedroom, 2) Staircase, 3) Bathroom, 4) Driveway & Walkway

Home Sweet Home

Home is where we will spend our final days, aging in place and living independently.
Home is where we'd like to be spending our golden years, aging in place and living independently.

Why Conventional Houses May Not Be Suitable For Aging In Place

Why Conventional Houses May Not Be Suitable For Aging In Place - Infographics: 1. Sleeping Quarter Upstairs, 2. Inaccessible and Dangerous Roof Shapes, 3. Way Houses Are Built, Way Too Much Maintenance, 4. Yards Too Big To Handle
  1. Sleeping Quarters Are On An Upper Level
  2.  Dangerous Roof Shapes
  3.  Too Much Maintenance Due To Ways Houses are Built
  4. Yards Too Big For Seniors To Handle

Foreword:

The senior population of Canada in 2023 is about 20% of the nation’s total. It is estimated that the percentage will double in the next twenty years. By the same token, the US senior population is about 18%. Whereas Japan has the world highest senior population of over 30%. These number will rise drastically in the next 20 years.

Governments are encouraging us to age in place which is the least costly way to live out our retirement years for our country, but not necessarily for ourselves. Furthermore, after the first deadly waves of the Covid pandemic, some of us are telling the governments that keeping seniors in lockdown in organized living situations just didn’t work. The problem is, our systems are full of holes and this blog aims to point them out and offers ways to fix them. 

About The Blog And Its Author:

Hi, my name is Po Ku, a 74-year-old retired builder. I’ve designed and built houses since 1975. I graduated with an B.Arch. in 1977 from Dalhousie University in Nova Scotia and became a registered architect in Alberta in 1980. Here at The Seniors’ Blog, we want to help seniors live on their own and stay comfortable in their homes. To achieve that, both you and your home must be in relatively good shape for a long and happy life.

Why You Should Read This Blog:

The blog offers simple tips on aging in place, seniors’ health, home upkeeping, decluttering, downsizing, minimalism, and technology for seniors. If you’re 55 or older, now is the time to act. Therefore, being prepared is important! If you’re an empty nester who hasn’t thought about aging in place, this blog will make you think.

Before making a decision – whether to buy, build, renovate or move, read this blog first. Otherwise, managing your home will become overwhelming. You might end up moving to an apartment or retirement home too soon. In any case, the move may not be right for you if you favor privacy, personal space, and living on your own.

A Few Words From The Author:

“I am only here to share my experiences with you. Over time, I’ve seen many avoidable problems in homes, especially for seniors. It is true that we can get set in our ways, but small changes may make a big difference. Think of this blog as friendly advice from one senior to another.” – Po Ku

Table Of Content:

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Seniors HelpHelp and Support:
Watch Out for the Danger Zones in and around your house. Implement Home Safety Ideas. Access an useful list of resources and supports available for seniors to help you aging in place. How to navigate our healthcare system.

Home Service GuideFinding Tradesmen:
Learn how to find trusted workers for home repairs and maintenance. Monthly home service schedule. What to look out for in and around your house. If you consider so much work may not be worth your while, think hard why conventional houses not suitable for most of us seniors who desire aging in place.

Saving MoneyMaximizing Value and Minimizing Cost:
Learn how to get the most value out of your budget while reducing costs on home repairs and daily living.

Cluttered or SparseMaterialism vs Minimalism:
Explore the benefits of minimalism and how it can enhance your quality of life as a senior in our golden years. Why we became materialistic. How things we own can become a great burden at our age. Guide to downsizing and decluttering.

Notion of ‘House’Rethinking Home Design:
Challenge traditional views of home design and discover new ideas for creating a better living environment.

Ideal House PlansDesigning Sensible Homes:
Understand the importance of designing homes and neighbourhoods that cater to seniors and promote community living. The need for downsizing and building low maintenance houses.

Technology Can Help – How Seniors Can Benefit:
Stay updated on the latest tech that can make life easier and safer, like “service robots”, in home monitoring and more.

Age Inclusive Neighbourhoods – The Future Of Our Community:
Find out about age-friendly neighborhood design and how they can make your life better. We need everyone’s help to make this happen, including city councils, politicians, planners, and seniors like us.

Main Reasons Why Some Seniors Are Fed Up With Aging In Place

Opposite Of What Low Maintenance Houses Ought To Be - Infographics: 4 Most Hated Issues In An Older Home for Seniors : 1) Leaky Roof, 2) Drafty Windows, 3) Inadequate Insulation & Cold In Winter, 4) Water Problems In Basement
Infographics: 4 Most Hated Issues In An Older Home for Seniors : 1) Leaky Roof, 2) Leaking & Drafty Windows, 3) Inadequate Insulation & Cold In Winter, 4) Water Problems In Basement

Work, Work, Work - Outside Chores Are Never Done

importance of downsizing - so much work around the house - unless you are a millionaire, you cannot do all the work yourself - work such as tending to very large yards, mowing grass, removing snow, chipping ice, cutting down branches and trees and dealing with all the troubles with an overgrown tree in your yard with roots clogging up your sewer pipes, etc.
1) Taking Care Of Your Yard Is Pleasant Until You Find The Work Is Never Done Unless You Hire Outside Help. 2) Snow Removal Is Nothing But Exhausting Work But You Can Handle It Until You Find That You Cannot Do It Any More. 3) And Then The Odd But Dangerous Tasks Of Cutting Down Branches And Tress That You Were Going To Handle Yourself. 4) What About That Big Oak Tree With Roots That Penetrate Your Sewer Pipes And Leaves That Need To Be Raked.

Is Aging In Place In Our Golden Years Worth It?

Some might ask why we try so hard to stay in homes that don’t meet our needs anymore. In reality, our connection to our homes goes beyond the building itself. For instance, our roots are deeply set in our neighborhood—the familiar faces, the streets we’ve walked for years, the trees we’ve seen grow, and the local pets and parks create a special place. We don’t want to lose all that in our golden years.

Homes are more than just buildings; they are sanctuaries. In these spaces, we can be with friends and family at our own pace, doing what we love, like gardening, cooking, reading, or listening to music. Also, they let us care for pets and enjoy hobbies. Not only do they offer a base for us, but also freedom for us and our pets to roam, giving us the independence we cherish.

We need to work towards Inclusive Neighborhoods For All Ages. Planners, architects, politicians, government officials, realtors & citizens must see the benefits of aging in place for seniors and work together to change the status quo. 

Undoubtedly, retirement or nursing homes have their place in society, but moving to them too soon might not be the best choice. Sometimes, this move can feel forced. Looking at other options for aging in place can help us keep our way of life for as long as possible.  Read what the current status is for aging in place.

The Road To Aging In Place

Infographics : 1) Downsizing For Retirees, 2) Decluttering - Rummage Sale, Second Hand Store, Donation, Etc., 3) Organizing Stuff You Really Need, 4) Keep Fit Your Body & House
Infographics : 1) Downsizing, 2) Decluttering - Rummage Sale, Second Hand Store, Donation, Etc., 3) Organizing Stuff You Really Need, 4) Keep Fit Your Body & House

Healthy You, Healthy House

To stay in your home as long as possible, keep yourself relatively healthy, maintain your home and yards, and have enough money to support your lifestyle. First, regular yearly check-ups are important. They can help spot and stop health problems early. Running a home takes a sound mind and body, which is needed for aging in place.

Moreover, know where to get help when you need it. Phone numbers and helplines are listed in Seniors Help to help you find your way. Because our national health system isn’t perfect, there are tips to help you find a family doctor and avoid emergency rooms.

‘Aging in place’ is more than just a mindset. Keep your body, mind, and home in shape to ‘live long and prosper’. This brilliant short video is a good place to start.

Be Thrifty, Know Quality, Save Money

Infographics : Be Thrifty - Recognize Value & Quality When Buying Big Budget Items - Clothing, Food, Home Improvements, Automobile
Infographics : Be Thrifty - Recognize Value & Quality When Buying Big Budget Items - Clothing, Food, Home Improvements, Automobile. https://nevermoveagain.com/saving-money/
common room in retirement home with lots of old people, an exact opposite to independent living and again in place
We May Live Here One Day But Let's Not Be Hasty

Let’s Not Be Hasty

I encourage you to explore my blog series to consider these issues further and to think about all the possibilities before making such a life-altering decision. There are options that you may not know about. It’s no more complicated than planning an extensive trip. And planning here is crucial and necessary. The following are the most common complaints heard after people moved from their own homes for good:

  • I can hear my neighbors all the time.
  • Playing music is no longer an option.
  • Turning my hi-fi on loud enough is impossible.
  • My workshop is something I miss dearly.
  • Going outside without bumping into someone I know is awkward.
  • My own backyard and garden are things I deeply miss.
  • Privacy feels like a distant memory.
  • There’s not enough space for my hobbies.
  • The common areas feel impersonal
  • It’s nothing like having my car nearby.
  • Living under constant guard is very odd indeed.
  • The peace and quiet of my own home are what I miss the most.
  • Both me and my pets miss being close to the street and neighbourhood.

Small Houses, Small Lots, For Our Golden Years

To assist you, I have put together a monthly maintenance schedule for your home and yard. This post includes a step-by-step guide for finding reliable tradespeople. Also, living frugally can help you make the most of your fixed income. For homeowners, there are ways to earn extra money from your property. As you probably know already, owning a house is a lot of work. That’s why I am a proponent of keeping things small and simple.

If your house becomes too hard to live in but you still want to stay in a house, you may need to trade it for a more suitable home for seniors. In other words, downsizing. As we get older, smaller spaces are better for living independently. Still, they must meet all our needs, which is the main point of downsizing. If you own a lot which is larger than you can handle, consider dividing it into smaller lots. Smaller homes and lots are what seniors need, not apartments or shared living!

‘We don’t have enough homes to meet our aging needs’: The ideal home for aging in place might not even exist

Market Watch wrote this research article on the lack of proper occupant-owned houses for seniors and retirees. Read Here.

Here are the basic requirements for houses suitable for Aging In Place :

  • Single-Level Living: Avoiding stairs is crucial for mobility and safety. Include a small elevator if possible.

  • No-Step Entries: Easy access for those with mobility aids like wheelchairs or walkers.

  • Wide Hallways and Doorways: Accommodating mobility aids and ensuring easy movement within the home.

  • Accessible Bathrooms: Features like grab bars, walk-in showers, and raised toilets.

  • Low-Maintenance Design & Construction: Reducing the need for extensive upkeep, which can be physically and financially burdensome.

  • Proximity to Services: Being close to healthcare, grocery stores, and community centers.

  • Safety Features: Good lighting, non-slip flooring, and emergency response systems

Why Conventional Houses May Not Be Suitable For Aging In Place – it all depends on whether or not you take action soon enough.

Towards Truly Inclusive Neighborhoods For All Ages Where Young and Old Can Live Together Comfortably

Low Maintenance Houses, towards an inclusive neighborhoods for all ages - infographics : one way to create more houses for seniors in our neighborhoods is to allow us to subdivide our lots into smaller lots so we can build some durable, maintenance-free houses that suit our lifestyles. Precast concrete is one suitable material for the hosues. Flat roofs where root-top gardens can be created. Small lots with small yards of maintenance-free materials. Small trees, small shrubs, small everything will suit us eminently.

1) Make It Easier For Zoning Changes So That A Larger Lot Can Be Severed Into Two Or More Lots For Smaller Houses

2) Build Smaller Houses Of About 1000 Sq.Ft. With A Roof Top Garden, Full Basement and Electrically Heated Small Parking Pad

3) Allow Roof Top Gardens Because There Won’t Be Much Yards To Lounge Around Or Plant Things.

4) Create Fully Usable Basements That Are Properly Built, Dry, Airy & Bright.

5) Zoning Must Allow Us To Build Smaller Houses That Suit Our Lifestyles So That We Can Stay In Our Own Neighborhoods.

Designed For Aging In Place / Independent Living : Multipurpose Space In A Compact House
here's to our golden years : jovial dinner party in senior couples house designed to suit - quintessential independent living and aging in place after downsizing
Happy Golden Years : Dinner Party In Our Own Kitchen In Our Own Home

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  1. You are solely responsible for ensuring the safety of your home environment. Our recommendations are provided as general suggestions, and we encourage you to consult with qualified professionals (e.g., electricians, contractors, or security specialists) before undertaking any actions or making changes that may impact the safety or structure of your home.
  2. Any guidance on organizing or reducing personal possessions is based on general principles. Individual circumstances may vary, and we recommend seeking the advice of professional organizers or counselors if needed. We are not responsible for any unintended outcomes from following such advice, including emotional or psychological impacts.
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